I didn't post it in singles/dating, you never get good answers there.
I have been talking to a guy I met on okcupid. He is a dom and I'm into mild BDSM (not anything hardcore).
I like him but, he lives too far away, we need at least 1hour with car to meet.
Also, we talked with cam for a while (no we didn't have cybersex, we just talked) and while I had the camera on, he didn't and seemed to try to avoid it. I haven't seen his face. He's also older than me (32 while I am 21)
He doesn't sound like a bad guy, but based on what I wrote, does it sound like a bad idea because of the distance?